Sometimes, we tend to forget about the things that our loved one has done for us. More than often, we took them for granted. At times, we tend to keep our feelings to ourselves. We try to be cool about trivia matters, acting as if nothing has happened or just trying to put on a strong front. I guess that's normal human behaviour.
However, that cannot always be the case. These small, trivia incidents that happen everyday in our lives are just like a snowball rolling down a snow mountain. Ever heard of the snowball effect? Life is never fair. Things are never easy for a relationship. If the snowball is not disperse in time, it will grow in size, and eventually becomes huge enough to roll down a house. We have to learn to accept each other, to appreciate and to listen to each other. I have read the book "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus". Women wants to be heard and understood, and men just wants to be appreciated. I think this is quite true to a certain extent.
I have known her for half a year. No, it is not a long time. Neither would I consider it short. She is a pretty, capable, clever and loving girlfriend. We have been through several ups and downs, quarrels and arguements. But this is not good enough to seperate us. Our bond for each other has grown in size since the day we met, till date, too strong for any kind of disaster to harm it.
Today
is our half year anniversary.....I would like to take this chance to tell
her something....:) Click the following links to view the messages